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January 24 2018

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psychara:

Channeling my inner Sybill Trelawney 🔮 for my weekly dinner/hangout with friends! And guess what?! I looked into my glass ball and saw myself eating pizza tonight..! A bright future indeed 🍕

roseverdict:

meeresfem:

hobbitsaarebas:

gothiccharmschool:

biwomensupport:

voidbat:

stimmyabby:

You don’t have to be grateful that it isn’t worse.

read that.

read it again, and again, and again.

somebody, somewhere, always has it worse than you. there is one person on this planet that has it the worst of all, and that person is NOT the only person allowed to be unhappy with their lot.

if things are bad for you, they are bad for you. period.

This goes for trauma as well. A lot of times survivors get trapped in a cycle of  minimizing/diminishing their trauma because “other people have it worse” - but there is no hierarchy of trauma. There is no ranking system for which traumas are “better” or “worse.” Your trauma is valid. Period.

IMPORTANT TRUTHS.

As a therapist, lemme just say: almost every trauma survivor I’ve ever had has at some point said “But I didn’t have it as bad as some people” and then talked about how other types of trauma are worse. Even my most-traumatized, most-abused, most psychologically-injured clients say this. 

The ones who were cheated on, abandoned, and neglected say this. The ones who were in dangerous accidents/disasters say this. The ones who were horrifyingly sexually abused say this. The ones who were brutally beaten say this. The ones who were psychologically tortured for decades say this. What does that tell you? That one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care

Don’t buy into it, because it’s nonsense. It doesn’t matter if someone else had it “worse.” Every person who experiences a trauma deserves to get the attention and care they need to heal from it. 

“one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care.”

SO true.

just because someone broke their arm doesn’t mean you have to deal with wrist pain

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death-by-lulz:

this dog is that character you think is evil but actually has a heart of gold

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This post is gooooold

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ghibli-collector:

More Art of Kiki’s Delivery Service - Dir Hayao Miyazaki (1989)

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cyberbunbun:

sculptedfromclay:

kingdomkome21:

Do these quotes REALLY have anything to do with Wonder Woman?


fake geek boys at it again

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dar-a:

fuckrashida:

femmequeens:

Naomi Campbell, Adut Akech Bior, Liya Kebede, Yasmin Wijnaldum, and Aube Jolicoeur photographed by Steven Meisel for Moschino Spring/Summer 2018 styled by Carlyne Cerf De Dudzeele, with hair by Guido, and makeup by Pat McGrath

Best campaign of the season

it’s so major that he had yasmin falling in the back of adut’s picture

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male-witch:

royal-creep:

fandombatched:

cirquereveur:

missythemermaid:

thewieneryears-deactivated20130:

Moss Graffiti: A How To Guide

are you fucking for real

Imagine being the criminal who returns weekly to make sure his fucking plant art is doing alright

Later

I found it! I fucking found it! In my fucking dash! Nothing can stop me now! *EVIL GIGGLES*

OMG SAME RIGHT I SAW IT A YEAR AGO AND WAS UPSET I COULDNT FIND IT AGAIN

January 15 2018

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sissyhiyah:

shirosredknight:

thesoundofawesome:

officialmickrock:

I’m in love with the great British bake off

This is my personal favorite(so far)

I must start watching this.

January 12 2018

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thatpettyblackgirl:

This is #BlackExcellence 

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10knotes:

if there’s anything I can’t handle right now it’s this

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the-absolute-funniest-posts:

Hockey is so entertaining without even meaning to be

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unlimitedtrashworks:

latining:

papi-chulo-bucky:

faedreamer:

plotqueen:

the-owl-faced-girl:

I just want to yell so many good things about Britney Spears. Look at this parenting right here; rather than just twist their arms and tell the ‘smile or no McFlurry on the drive home’ she’s checking if her little boys are comfortable with the cameras and attention and if not, no problem baby boy, you go chill. And I have no problem with her staying to get more pictures, especially not when her other adorable kid wants to.  I mean, it’s her job up to a point. And we all know for a fact she probably watched the film with both the little bugs in her lap anyway. 

Considering what she dealt with and went through in front of paps….god, I love her. 

people can say what they want about her supposed meltdown, but frankly, that entire ‘episode’ always made perfect sense to me. she and i are of an age, and no matter how young or old i was, i always understood perfectly why she did it, and thought it was utter bullshit that a court could order what they did, instead of reprimanding the many, many people that felt so entitled to her that they drove her to extremes just to get 5 seconds of peace.

and now seeing this kind of thing? she has just gotten more awesome.

i remember reading how she got herself a tutor so she could help her kids with their homework. not got THEM a tutor, but she got herself one because she wanted to be the one helping them. that’s a+++ parenting right there ok?

This makes me so happy :’)

She got a court order because she was, by her own admission, raising her kids like her mother raised her. The judge sent her to therapy and parenting classes to work out all of the horrible stage-mother bullshit she had to live through. I mean, she thought it was normal to give her kids cough syrup and whiskey so they’d sleep, because it’s what her mother gave her to knock her out when she got rowdy.

I think Britney is a great role model for adult abused children and is living proof that you are not trapped in the cycle of abuse.

The purest 90s kid experience is being so happy for Britney Spears in her new life

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days-e:

Neon lights pt3

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ru-debega:

strange-book-club:

lukia26:

patterns-in-static:

iguanamouth:

an-eighth-of-faith submitted: My aunt’s wizard lizard. You know what to do.
(P.s. I love you very much)

YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO

…you know what to do.

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you know what to do

it keeps getting better

January 06 2018

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agpicklefeet:

Raaaaaatttttts

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vacuumchan:

lonely boy

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January 04 2018

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dailysailormoon:

Rei Hino + Overalls

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kemaesthetics:

Pink Witch // I own none of the images show above.

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